True Intimacy

If the anticipation and completion of sexual activity produces positive feelings in you and your spouse, then your intimate proximity is working positively on your sexual relationship. Wherever you are in your sexual journey with your partner, your goal is not just for sexual intimacy, but the mental and spiritual, because the issues are interconnected, knowing that it will always be two of you, seek mutually satisfying sex life that has the potential for growth throughout your life and, above all, thanks to God - sovereign power who created sexual desire.


Sex is a mental and spiritual mystery. True intimacy comes when couples make the change from attraction to attachment - deep, connected oneness and closeness that enjoys each other even when the spouse is not attractive again, due to wear and tear, aging, etc. The fact is that sexual feelings, attraction, passion and desire change once you live with someone and have sex regularly. But the passion that comes from proximity, which is independent of the attraction, only gets better over the years. Most times, this helps the growth of sexual attraction.

To identify where you are in your sexual relationship, ask yourself some intimate questions:
Does the anticipation of being together sexually produce feelings of pleasure, arousal and excitement?
Does it produce a sensation of pressure, demand and obligation?
Do you feel a sense of satisfaction, security, happiness, contentment; relaxation, and enjoyment after sex?