Intimacy in Front Of Children

The couples must show intimacy in front of the children. There are many good things that some husbands do not enjoy with their wives in front of their children. These include displaying affection to their wives, especially in front of their children. An example is kissing. A man of course, predicts that the reaction of his child may be negative.

We have all met a lot of kids over the years. Think of the kids who turned out well. What are the characteristics of their parents' marriages? The first one is that the parents continue to court each other. It's great for kids to see Mom and Dad putting their relationship first. Part of courting is affirming each other, like saying, "Thanks for the fantastic food!" or "You know, I think your mother is the most beautiful woman in the world." Sometimes all you have to do is to just put your arms around each other. Try, where possible to show each other love and respect that helps your intimacy and rejuvenate, revitalize, recharge and re-energize your sex lives.

When children see their parents every time displaying affection and respect, they feel more secure and these bring joy to the Union.

It's Not All About Sex

Spending Time Together

Most often, when asked the best thing to do to make sex between husband and wife more interestingly, couples want to hear the latest tips on sexual positions, moves, talks and so on. But, frankly, in few years of marriage there are other things that keep sex going. I found that sex, to the married is more than mere skin to skin and all the latest hot tips.

I do not ignore the fact that a man or a woman is under undue stress to make it in our society, but the question everyone should ask is: what happens with wealth, position and influence when we don’t pay attention to our spouse and family. Sex alone will not keep a meaningful relationship together. It should be supported by all the things listed above. Part of the reason why most couples experience sexual union today is because the couples in question have been faithful to have a time together.

There is no harm in married couple continuing to date each other. What else makes a healthy sex life and family? Just do things together, pray together, play together and go on holiday together. “Research” has shown that couples communicate better when they do things in common. If we are not careful, you can be so busy that you may jeopardize the most important things in your life. Small decisions make a big difference in our sex lives and marriages.

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Infidelity (Continued)

DEALING WITH CHEATING

Instead of bringing about positive changes in marriage, the relationship would end in chaos. Learn to control your behavior. Negative responses can complicate the problem. Please tame your reaction, for example, your partner may heap blame on you to exculpate himself or herself because your behavior has shown that you do not have self-control. This is a common trend in women. Many women have lost their homes, marriages, families and lives as a result of negative reactions. Do not retaliate. Revenge is a common answer. Nobody has a monopoly on revenge.

Vengeful tactics include engaging in immorality to show your unfaithful spouse what it feels like to be betrayed, or go to their workplace or the home of the adulterer to cause a scene and so on. This will only aggravate your own stupidity. Any effort of vengeance is doomed to failure. Returning evil for evil just makes the other person feel less guilty and encouraged him to return fire for fire. Before taking such action, think of the many years of your investment in marriage and the effects of your behavior and also the fate of your children. Ask yourself, "What do I stand to gain?" or "What are the likely effects of this type of behavior on my relationship later”. Instead, why not seek advice from people with knowledge? After the first wave of shock, grief and anger, the most productive things you can do is to find the wisdom of a counselor or spiritual leader. If your spouse is not willing to go, then go alone.

It is more likely to make wise decisions if you receive help from someone who is not emotionally involved in the situation. Remember, the decision made in anger or under emotional shock can lead to a major crisis.
Keep in mind that the purpose of counseling is not just for you and your spouse to be under the same roof or make you believe that it never happened. The essence of the guidance is to enable one forget past failures of others, to establish a new model of relationship among themselves inorder to live a purposeful life and also work together. Do not think your marriage can not be restored. Your marriage may indeed be redeemed. While all sins can be forgiven, it must be noted that the road to true reconciliation is genuine repentance. Your spouse must be willing to sever all contacts with the intruder and devote his/her efforts to rebuilding your marriage.

Help the other party to regain trust, reconciliation involves both taking honest look at what led to the sexual infidelity in question. The goal is not to trade blame, but to look at the dynamics of your marriage and discover what you and your partner need to change. It takes two to make a mistake in marriage. Confidence will not return overnight. Trust grows as your spouse now chooses to be trustworthy. If he or she sincerely wants to rebuild trust, openness and commitment can help the confidence-building. Reconciliation after sexual infidelity is neither easy nor fast. However, many will agree with a couple who said: "Although it was painful and took the time to heal, God refined our hearts.

Today, every time they go to pick their children from school after school hours, they look at each other and smile, thanking God not to have given up on their marriage. "
Honestly, there is hope for your marriage, if we are willing to unite as one and learn to forgive past mistakes no matter how painful.

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The Issue Of Infidelity Either On The Part Of The Husband Or The Wife

DEALING WITH CHEATING

Infidelity is a serious threat to the beauty of marriage. People have the misconception that it has come to stay. The general attitude is that “everybody is doing it”. This problem cuts accross race, color, state and nation. It 'been a great concern for me and I think there is an urgent need for action to save the society. Infidelity is not in line with the promise of marriage.

Married couple, promising to be faithful to each other, only to get rid of the promise sooner than later. Whether it is a one-night stand or a long relationship, the results are the same as your spouse's action has led to fear, doubt, mistrust, betrayal and anger. To the wounded, is a source of emotional instability. What makes the difference is the way to handle these emotional feelings.

It is quite understandable that catching your partner engaging in infidelity red hand can be very traumatic. But for the sake of their marriage and the future of the children of the relationship, this can be handled maturely in order to reduce its devastating effects.
No matter how terrible the situation, it is noteworthy that there is nothing new under the sky.

The average person could hold back tears on the face of unpleasant experience. I would advise for the tears to flow unhindered. Crying may be a healthy response because of course, your body would be difficult to endure such unpleasant development.

However, never let the situation degenerate into a "poor me 'attitude. That does not do you any good. Yes, due to cultural and ego factors, men often try to hide their feelings. But for the sake of your health, a man can cry if necessary.
So, go ahead and express your feelings to your spouse. Tell him/her how you feel. This is where positive communication is necessary. Verbally expressing your feelings is also a healthy way to process anger, provided they use "I" instead of "you". When you say, "You betrayed me" or "You took advantage of me" or "you do not love me", which will only generate negative reactions. And negative reactions do not lead to positive results.

I often say in jest telling couples instead of making an issue over a spilled milk, why not take hold of the hand of that "caught in adultery' partner, lead him/her home to have a nice time together and move on with life. Marriage is a thing so sweet and good to enjoy instead of turning yourself into a psychiatric patient in trivial matters. Statements like, "I feel betrayed" or "I feel hurt" or "I feel you do not love me", simply reveal your emotion. They are honest statements that communicate the depth of your pain. But please do not attack his/her personality as he or she may become defensive and put you at the receiving edge.

This will be continued............. watch out!!!