Monday, July 26, 2010

Sex Agenda 3

All-over-the-house sex can be sometimes pleasant. Inject some spontaneity into your sex life to make your partner feel more desirable. Spontaneity is beautiful. It's fun and exciting. People often engage in the routine of having sex the same way, same time and same place. If you and your spouse are watching TV together, for example, pulling him or her close for a quick rendezvous can be surprising and refreshing. It's a good and clean fun that requires no permission.
Try outdoor sex. Most of the time, children should be allowed to play outside because it is good for their total health. Take a leave from your usual way and find a place where the privacy level is so high. If you are camping in a tent or living in a large compound, you could use this opportunity to try something new. To avoid being seen, it’s best to keep your pranks private. Assign new position and style in order to learn more about what brings your partner pleasure. Some positions are more effective than others in helping your wife’s orgasm.
Pregnant women have preference for positions, while nursing mothers have favourable positions. Men with potbellies love certain positions, while those with small stature also go for special positions. This is why it is important that you and your partner should constantly be changing position. Remember, variety is the spice of life.
For example, a marathon sex is good to celebrate the promotion, a new car, new house, etc.
Work together to achieve a common goal. The fulfilment of your sexual desire may avert the effects of heat.
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Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Sex Agenda 2

The newlyweds often practice the 'hope-we-don't-get-caught’ type of sex, but this type of sex should not just stop there. For example, if you are bored at a family reunion, add a little spice to the evening by sneaking into a spare room. The possibility of being caught adds a new level of excitement to your sex life and can give you even a reason to look forward to spending the holidays with in-laws.

A sense of urgency can heat up the action in a big way. After all, it is also the element of mystery that defines the romance.. So if you feel like ripping each other’s clothes off and skimping on foreplay could bring an exciting change. And if you think that this is not your style, why not try comfort sex. Sometimes you need something simple, familiar and comfortable. It is a way to provide love and support after a hard day. At this point it might be appropriate to use your favorite stand-by position that you and your partner always enjoy.

Get your sexual fantasies fulfilled. And as long as you both feel comfortable with each other to perform, there is no reason why one should not try them. Each other’s fantasies should be pursed believing that they are appropriate. For example, if your partner always dreamed of doing it on a boat, why not rent one and spend a romantic night at sea? All aboard! Just for a day out of all the weekends in the year. Remember always that kind of quickie sex when you're pressed for time, do not write off sex. Make sure it is something both parties want. Unfulfiling experience for one of you can to foster resentment and weaken the relationship.

If someone says, yes to sex when they really mean no, one’s making a mistake. Of course, the ubiquitous romantic, sensual sex is always available to the couples who are advanced in age. Take time to sex without rushing through it can be exciting to enjoy. Sign in with your partner by slowly enjoying every moment of being together and you can enjoy the emotional connection that makes sex better. Let candles, music, or 'tete-a-tete", Building the atmosphere can give a major boost between the sheets. Your need for intimacy changes and your body may not respond the same way it did when you were younger. With this kind of sex, women over 40 years of age who have been finding their libido lagging can find fulfilment.

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Tuesday, July 13, 2010

SEX AGENDA

A fulfilling sex life is one of the most important ways to stay connected to your partner and to strengthen self-esteem throughout the year. But great sex dont just happen. Couples must change their approach to sex from time to time so it does not become a routine. Experimentation with different types of sexual behavior is a key element of the renewal of vows to maintain sexual relationship and make it still fresh and fulfilling. Opening up about your desire can also bring you closer to your spouse and each other.
Do you include sex in your plan during a holiday. Do you know that any of the holidays can be fun for couples? For example, Valentine's Day, Mother's Day, Father's Day, New Year's Eve and can therefore be used to spice up your sex life. In fact, researchers have found that biorhythm conception rate is highest during these periods. So start the year on a good note by including sex on your agenda.
Do you know that sex can help resolve a dispute? A passionate argument can lead to some just-as-passionate action between the sheets.. Fighting causes dopamine and adrenaline levels to rise. Every couple experiences sometimes conflict. And having sex after a disagreement can be a great way to get your relationship back on track. Whenever you're upset, you need to get over it and move forward. Sex changes momentum after an argument.
You can deliberately create a vocational sex. Both of you may be hidden from prying eyes of the public where crisp, clean sheets are begging to be rumpled. Holidays can be an excellent opportunity to reconnect with your partner sexual. One advantage of a vacation should be to renew your sexual intimacy. In planning your trip, make sure you include sex on your schedule. For example, plan to stay at the hotel until late afternoon to go back to your room after dinner for a good time together.

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Monday, February 1, 2010

True Intimacy




If the anticipation and completion of sexual activity produces positive feelings in you and your spouse, then your intimate proximity is working positively on your sexual relationship. Wherever you are in your sexual journey with your partner, your goal is not just for sexual intimacy, but the mental and spiritual, because the issues are interconnected, knowing that it will always be two of you, seek mutually satisfying sex life that has the potential for growth throughout your life and, above all, thanks to God - sovereign power who created sexual desire.


Sex is a mental and spiritual mystery. True intimacy comes when couples make the change from attraction to attachment - deep, connected oneness and closeness that enjoys each other even when the spouse is not attractive again, due to wear and tear, aging, etc. The fact is that sexual feelings, attraction, passion and desire change once you live with someone and have sex regularly. But the passion that comes from proximity, which is independent of the attraction, only gets better over the years. Most times, this helps the growth of sexual attraction.

To identify where you are in your sexual relationship, ask yourself some intimate questions:
Does the anticipation of being together sexually produce feelings of pleasure, arousal and excitement?
Does it produce a sensation of pressure, demand and obligation?
Do you feel a sense of satisfaction, security, happiness, contentment; relaxation, and enjoyment after sex?

Friday, January 29, 2010

Intimacy in Front Of Children

The couples must show intimacy in front of the children. There are many good things that some husbands do not enjoy with their wives in front of their children. These include displaying affection to their wives, especially in front of their children. An example is kissing. A man of course, predicts that the reaction of his child may be negative.

We have all met a lot of kids over the years. Think of the kids who turned out well. What are the characteristics of their parents' marriages? The first one is that the parents continue to court each other. It's great for kids to see Mom and Dad putting their relationship first. Part of courting is affirming each other, like saying, "Thanks for the fantastic food!" or "You know, I think your mother is the most beautiful woman in the world." Sometimes all you have to do is to just put your arms around each other. Try, where possible to show each other love and respect that helps your intimacy and rejuvenate, revitalize, recharge and re-energize your sex lives.

When children see their parents every time displaying affection and respect, they feel more secure and these bring joy to the Union.



Thursday, January 28, 2010

It's Not All About Sex

Spending Time Together

Most often, when asked the best thing to do to make sex between husband and wife more interestingly, couples want to hear the latest tips on sexual positions, moves, talks and so on. But, frankly, in few years of marriage there are other things that keep sex going. I found that sex, to the married is more than mere skin to skin and all the latest hot tips.
I do not ignore the fact that a man or a woman is under undue stress to make it in our society, but the question everyone should ask is: what happens with wealth, position and influence when we don’t pay attention to our spouse and family. Sex alone will not keep a meaningful relationship together. It should be supported by all the things listed above. Part of the reason why most couples experience sexual union today is because the couples in question have been faithful to have a time together.
There is no harm in married couple continuing to date each other. What else makes a healthy sex life and family? Just do things together, pray together, play together and go on holiday together. “Research” has shown that couples communicate better when they do things in common. If we are not careful, you can be so busy that you may jeopardize the most important things in your life. Small decisions make a big difference in our sex lives and marriages.



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Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Infidelity (Continued)





DEALING WITH CHEATING


Instead of bringing about positive changes in marriage, the relationship would end in chaos. Learn to control your behavior. Negative responses can complicate the problem. Please tame your reaction, for example, your partner may heap blame on you to exculpate himself or herself because your behavior has shown that you do not have self-control. This is a common trend in women. Many women have lost their homes, marriages, families and lives as a result of negative reactions. Do not retaliate. Revenge is a common answer. Nobody has a monopoly on revenge.

Vengeful tactics include engaging in immorality to show your unfaithful spouse what it feels like to be betrayed, or go to their workplace or the home of the adulterer to cause a scene and so on. This will only aggravate your own stupidity. Any effort of vengeance is doomed to failure. Returning evil for evil just makes the other person feel less guilty and encouraged him to return fire for fire. Before taking such action, think of the many years of your investment in marriage and the effects of your behavior and also the fate of your children. Ask yourself, "What do I stand to gain?" or "What are the likely effects of this type of behavior on my relationship later”. Instead, why not seek advice from people with knowledge? After the first wave of shock, grief and anger, the most productive things you can do is to find the wisdom of a counselor or spiritual leader. If your spouse is not willing to go, then go alone.

It is more likely to make wise decisions if you receive help from someone who is not emotionally involved in the situation. Remember, the decision made in anger or under emotional shock can lead to a major crisis.
Keep in mind that the purpose of counseling is not just for you and your spouse to be under the same roof or make you believe that it never happened. The essence of the guidance is to enable one forget past failures of others, to establish a new model of relationship among themselves inorder to live a purposeful life and also work together. Do not think your marriage can not be restored. Your marriage may indeed be redeemed. While all sins can be forgiven, it must be noted that the road to true reconciliation is genuine repentance. Your spouse must be willing to sever all contacts with the intruder and devote his/her efforts to rebuilding your marriage.

Help the other party to regain trust, reconciliation involves both taking honest look at what led to the sexual infidelity in question. The goal is not to trade blame, but to look at the dynamics of your marriage and discover what you and your partner need to change. It takes two to make a mistake in marriage. Confidence will not return overnight. Trust grows as your spouse now chooses to be trustworthy. If he or she sincerely wants to rebuild trust, openness and commitment can help the confidence-building. Reconciliation after sexual infidelity is neither easy nor fast. However, many will agree with a couple who said: "Although it was painful and took the time to heal, God refined our hearts.

Today, every time they go to pick their children from school after school hours, they look at each other and smile, thanking God not to have given up on their marriage. "
Honestly, there is hope for your marriage, if we are willing to unite as one and learn to forgive past mistakes no matter how painful.


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Monday, January 25, 2010

The Issue Of Infidelity Either On The Part Of The Husband Or The Wife

DEALING WITH CHEATING
Infidelity is a serious threat to the beauty of marriage. People have the misconception that it has come to stay. The general attitude is that “everybody is doing it”. This problem cuts accross race, color, state and nation. It 'been a great concern for me and I think there is an urgent need for action to save the society. Infidelity is not in line with the promise of marriage.

Married couple, promising to be faithful to each other, only to get rid of the promise sooner than later. Whether it is a one-night stand or a long relationship, the results are the same as your spouse's action has led to fear, doubt, mistrust, betrayal and anger. To the wounded, is a source of emotional instability. What makes the difference is the way to handle these emotional feelings.
It is quite understandable that catching your partner engaging in infidelity red hand can be very traumatic. But for the sake of their marriage and the future of the children of the relationship, this can be handled maturely in order to reduce its devastating effects.
No matter how terrible the situation, it is noteworthy that there is nothing new under the sky.
The average person could hold back tears on the face of unpleasant experience. I would advise for the tears to flow unhindered. Crying may be a healthy response because of course, your body would be difficult to endure such unpleasant development.
However, never let the situation degenerate into a "poor me 'attitude. That does not do you any good. Yes, due to cultural and ego factors, men often try to hide their feelings. But for the sake of your health, a man can cry if necessary.
So, go ahead and express your feelings to your spouse. Tell him/her how you feel. This is where positive communication is necessary. Verbally expressing your feelings is also a healthy way to process anger, provided they use "I" instead of "you". When you say, "You betrayed me" or "You took advantage of me" or "you do not love me", which will only generate negative reactions. And negative reactions do not lead to positive results.
I often say in jest telling couples instead of making an issue over a spilled milk, why not take hold of the hand of that "caught in adultery' partner, lead him/her home to have a nice time together and move on with life. Marriage is a thing so sweet and good to enjoy instead of turning yourself into a psychiatric patient in trivial matters. Statements like, "I feel betrayed" or "I feel hurt" or "I feel you do not love me", simply reveal your emotion. They are honest statements that communicate the depth of your pain. But please do not attack his/her personality as he or she may become defensive and put you at the receiving edge.
This will be continued............. watch out!!!